My Thoughts....

My thoughts....

I know my thoughts don’t mean to much, I’m one person. I’m still going to post what I think, you don’t have to agree with what I say, but its here for you to see and things to show why I think that.

Love

No matter what, love always finds a way to come into your life whether you want it to or not. It can be the best thing and the worst thing at the same time.

Best thing in life - get to have the chance to be with someone you care about who cares about you too.

Worst thing in life - having your heart broken.

People always say "I like __ but I’m never going to have a chance with them cause they won't like me that way" and then out of the blue they do have a chance. You never know if you have a chance at love until you try

Cheating

I'm sorry to all the people I know who have cheated before, but you are incredably stupid for it.

All I can lly say is that people who cheat really can't feel/have felt as strongly for the person who they have cheated on as they say they did. I don't think that those who cheat can possibly have any idea of how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts a lot.

Unfortunetly too many people get hurt from cheating, and its not only the person who was cheated on, but the person who you cheated with can get hurt too. Most times when someone cheats they use a person for their own advantage. Which hurts to know that you have been used.

The thing that hurts the most is that you know that the person close to you has cheated on you and when you drop hints that you know, they don't clue in and they just lie. Then when you get fed up and say that you know they just give you stupid excusses like "I was in the mood, its not my fault" or "so and so got me in the mood so its their fault."

What is that.....its BULLSHIT!

Then whats even harder, is to trust any person again, because of being scared that you will be hurt again, even if you know that the person wont ever do anything like that.

By know through ready this so far you are probably wondering how in the hell can I say this, but I said in other things that i've written, I writ from experiences or I know someone who has experienced it

Second Chances

Getting a second chance with love, it normally doesn’t happen does it. You only see it in fairy tales, right? WRONG! People get second chances all the time just they normally don’t know it. All I know is that people sometimes deserve that second chance whether you want to give it to them or not. I personally have given second chances and received them back, and I don’t know why I got lucky enough to get the second chance, I don’t deserve it in my opinion.

Falling for two guys sucks! What is even worse is dumping one for the other..... I was happy that the guy that i had liked the longest liked me, so i dumped the one for the other. My excuse was that I didn't like him that way (total lie), but during the almost 2 months I had convienced myself that the feelings i had for the guy i dumped were gone, but i was lying to myself and when i was single again i stopped lying to myself. Now what was I supposed to do, i had NO CHANCE, I messed it up the first time. I don;t deserve this 2nd chance, but I am glad he still likes me after what i did and was able to forget about and give me this 2nd chance.....this time i'm not going to mess it up.

Breaking Up

You always dread breaking up, why? Well because you could have ended up liking the person a lot and the thought of not being with thien is too painful.

In my opinion, some people are wimps when it comes to breaking up. What do they do to be a wimp? Well they take the easy road out....MSN!

Breaking up over MSN is super cheap and it shows that the person doesn't have the nerves to do it in person. Breaking up over the phone is also pretty bad but not as bad as over MSN. At least over the phone you can hear the person's voice.

Jealousy

Jealousy is the key to all evil

It can cause many problems in a relationship. For me it did cause problems....

I am such a good friend with this one guy that we are like brother and sister. That doesn't sound bad, does it? Its not, until you put your boyfriend into the picture, because he can get so jealous of the time that you spend with your friend. Then he starts to accuse you of cheating becuase he wont give into believe that he is jealous. The thing that he doens't understand is that he shouldn't be getting jealous because you and your friend are just friends.
↑This is a major example that can cause relationships to end. So if you ever have a situation like that....Sort is out ASAP!

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